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How Do I Choose a Surrogate Mother?

Guide For Intended Parents

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Your decision in selecting a Surrogate Mother is a choice that ultimately merits a meticulous thought process and long hours of reflection.

Granted some couples who desire to select a Surrogate Mother may already be acquainted personally with their Intended Mother; many couples may not know who to trust or how to get started.

Where Can I Find a Caring Surrogate Mother?

There are clinics that can assist you in locating a Surrogate Mother, which is typically the best place to begin. FindSurrogateMother.com gives you the opportunity to search for a Surrogate Mother in just minutes.

No matter what agency you work with, you have the option of refusing any pre-selected Surrogate and choosing another. You may also elect to find a Surrogate Mother on your own. It is promising to locate both Surrogate providers and Surrogate Mothers with us or you may be referred to a specific agency by recommendations of family and friends.

During the process of choosing a Surrogate Mother, you should interact  with the surrogates (if possible) before making a decision.

You will want to discourse your specific expectations and her individual needs and anticipations. It is vital that you consume as much time as you feel is necessary during this process because feeling relaxed and comfortable with the Surrogate Mother that you choose is key.

If you are working with a clinic, they will provide medical records for their represented Surrogate Mother. If you have precise preferences concerning your Surrogate, the clinic will try to meet these requests within reason.

When bearing in mind an independent Surrogate Mother, it is vitally important that she provides you with adequate medical records and history. These records should unveil test results for all STDs, AIDS, Hepatitis B and C, as well as rubella. X-ray tests, an electrocardiogram and an annual pap smear can be significant to your own evaluation and decision.

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