Intended Parent from Honolulu, Hawaii, USA.
Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:
We are IPs looking for our surrogate angel.
How would you best describe yourself(s):
Aloha to all the kind souls in this community, Our little team of Three Musketeers is desperate for an additional member to join us on this grand, rollercoaster adventure called Life. Yes, we are desperate because we have longed for a sibling for our little daughter since the day she was born. She’s turning 3 in a few months. We would also love to have a big family to travel the world with. We frequently travel internationally thanks to the multicultural nature of our family as well as our curiosity to explore new places. Our embryos were created and stored in Hawai’i, where we have lived for more than a decade. My husband, Courtlin, is a data scientist and an amazing Dad who spends most of his time with our daughter. I am a SAHM as well as a budding writer. Years of living in Hawai’i and spiritual practice have taught us to be kind, respectful, honest and have faith in the goodness of others. We try to live by these principles daily. Our little rainbow has been a true miracle for us. She was born thanks to an angelic surrogate in Ohio. Unfortunately, our surrogate (who became our friend and to whom we are forever grateful) is unable to help us with a sibling journey because of a cardiac health condition she developed. We were devastated when we heard the news. After taking some time to recover from that heartbreak, we are now ready to transfer our precious embryo (we have 5 left but it will be a SET) and would love to start as soon as possible.
Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:
Thank you for reading our profile. We highly appreciate your generosity and kindness for wanting to help us. We had a perfectly smooth previous journey that was filled with positivity, respect and compassion. There were no medical, legal or financial troubles. We are looking forward to another journey that would happen in the same way, or even better, now that Covid is out of the way. We developed a close friendship with our surrogate and her family. We still talk with her every week and exchange photos of our kids' activities. (But we will respect your wish about the level of closeness and communication). In terms of procedures, paperwork, and clinics, we are confident that we will sail through the second journey just as smoothly. We are very efficient, responsive and well-organized. Please contact us if you want to know more about us and if you meet these requirements: * You live in a surrogate-friendly U.S. state * You’re between the age of 21-43 * You’ve had no more than 2 C-sections * Your BMI is below 33 * You’ve had a previous healthy pregnancy and delivery * You do not smoke tobacco, use drugs, abuse alcohol or live with someone who does * You have no significant history of depression or mental health illness * You’re willing to travel for pre-transfer medical screening and embryo transfer. Our embryos can be shipped to your clinic as well. * You have a support system * Your criminal record is clean * You’re financially stable and independent We are equally thrilled to work with a first-timer or an experienced GC, with or without an agency! We recognize the gravity of decisions regarding pregnancy termination and would not take such a step carelessly. We would terminate only after consulting three doctors if the GC's life was in risk or if the fetus had a condition not compatible with life. Please do not hesitate to contact us if you are interested in helping us. Thank you very much!
