Intended Parent from British Columbia, Canada.
Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:
Our dream surrogate: We would like to start a sibling journey. We hope to find a GC anywhere in Canada. We have three high quality embryos that have been tested, and we are with Olive Fertility Clinic. Olive Fertility clinic has a few requirements, the GC must: · Have had uncomplicated pregnancy and delivery (born at term). · Be a non-smoker under 40 years of age. · Have a BMI under 35. · Be healthy. We don’t have any vaccination requirements. We believe: Your body, your choice. We would also encourage termination if your life is at risk. We would love to have a relationship with our surrogate and we hope we stay in touch. This is an everlasting relationship with open communication. We thank you from the bottom of our hearts for considering and for helping many people’s dreams come true. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
How would you best describe yourself(s):
This is our story: When I met my husband Tarn for the first time, it was on April 09, 2011. I was invited to a shared birthday between Tarn and a mutual friend. When I saw Tarn for the first time, I swear I saw a halo form over his head. In my heart, I knew this was God’s message that Tarn was the one. His tanned skin was glistening, his eyes were inviting, his smile was mesmerizing. He shook my hand. I felt a magnetic wave rush through my body. He was so breathtakingly handsome that I couldn’t keep my eyes off of him. During dinner, with every bite I took, I would glance at Tarn thinking, was there another man this handsome? But Tarn wasn’t ready for a relationship as he just got out of a long relationship. But I just knew he was the one. I knew I wanted to marry him after one week. And I didn’t give up. Though at first he stopped texting me, I texted back and said we can at least be friends. And then to my luck, the friendship blossomed into love. We started to officially date on my birthday September 09, 2011. After that, I came out to my parents and they didn’t accept so I left the house and moved in with Tarn and his family. His mom took me in and treated me like her son from day one. Fast forward to March 09, 2012, we got engaged and had a small engagement party. Some photos surfaced online and my father disowned me completely via text and we haven’t talked since. Then, on July 09, 2016, we had our wedding and it was so beautiful, we had an Indian banquet hall in Surrey. A video of our wedding surfaced online and we got a lot of hate but also a lot of support too. Tarn and I persevered through it all. When we wanted to start a family, we remembered that my sister-in-law Kiran had offered that to us a few times including when we got engaged. We called her and she was living in Alberta at the time. She said, “Yes absolutely.” We went through Olive Fertility Clinic, and we got 5 embryos. They transferred two and froze 3. One of the two embryos became our son Malek, who is now 4 years old. During the pregnancy, Kiran was having gestational diabetes and other health problems. They had to induce her early so Malek was born at 34 weeks, but fortunately he did very well. We spent 2 weeks there and after that, Malek came home with us. We were so grateful for Kiran to give us the gift of life. She is not able to carry another baby for us because of health issues. *** A little more about us: We are located in Surrey, B.C. Hasan (36) is an Insurance Claims Adjuster Manager and a full-time author of fiction, poetry and children’s books. You can find more about Hasan here: www.hasannamir.com When he is not writing, Hasan loves watching Rupaul’s Drag Race, he’s seen every single season and international franchise out there. He also loves reading character-driven novels, poetry books and picture books with Malek every night. Tarn (36) is an HR professional at the University of British Columbia. He loves learning different languages and he’s an amazing chef at home. You can find reels and photos of Tarn’s cooking on Instagram (@Tarnstable). He also loves watching Drag Race. They both also love court TV like Hot Bench, Judge Judy, and People’s Court. Plus good shows on Netflix and Disney+. Another fun fact: We were on Family Feud Canada (Season 3)! Malek just turned 4 on October 26. He loves dinosaurs, Cocomelon, Peppa Pig, Paw Patrol. He loves reading, music and dancing. He wants to be a firefighter when he’s older.