Intended Parent from Mainz, Germany.
Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:
When I, Jennifer, was in puberty, I lost my uterus and one of my ovaries due to a congenital malformation. Despite these challenges, we never gave up the courage and hope of having a biological child. We addressed the issue early on and are working hard to make our dream come true. Now we have reached a point where we want to put our feelings and wishes into words – it's all so exciting!
How would you best describe yourself(s):
Hello, we are Jennifer (36) and Robert (35), a couple from Germany who are full of hope and love. We have been a couple for 15 years and married for over 3 years. Our greatest wish is to have a child and we know that we can only realize this dream with the help of a surrogate mother. When I, Jennifer, was in puberty, I lost my uterus and one of my ovaries due to a congenital malformation. Despite these challenges, we never gave up the courage and hope of having a biological child. We addressed the issue early on and are working hard to make our dream come true. Now we have reached a point where we want to put our feelings and wishes into words – it's all so exciting! We have found a wonderful fertility clinic in Germany that supports us with our hormone cycles. It has been a long and hard road, because with only one ovary the egg yield is not high, but we are in good spirits: We have already been able to freeze four little embryos! It's hard to believe that these little creatures already consist of Robert and me. After three successful cycles, we are planning another one on 21.11.2024, which should be completed around 30.11.2024.We will then send everything to Canada to have the embryos genetically tested. We already have a lawyer in Canada, Sara Cohen, who is supporting us, and a clinic, the team around Dr. Baratz in Ontario. We are currently looking into agencies that can help us and have already met two great agencies. Nevertheless, we wanted to take this step now and share our profile. Robert is an educator and assistant director in a large daycare center. He is passionate about working with children and bringing them joy and knowledge. I am a social worker and work in my self-help organization for people with my deformity. It's all about the deformity that I myself was born with. It fulfills me to support young people and adults with the same deformity in their lives. Outside of our jobs, we have a beautiful house near Mainz that we have been renovating and refurbishing together for over five years. We love working in the garden and growing our own fruit and vegetables. It's fascinating to see how a small seed becomes a fruit. Robert loves building new things for our house and I am also very creative and can complement and complete his craftsmanship. Our dog Charly, who will soon be 11 years old, enriches our lives immensely. We love traveling and discovering new cultures, flora and fauna. Robert is passionate about diving and has already seen many impressive underwater worlds. We also enjoy boating and sailing – we both have boating licenses and want to improve our skills. In addition to our hobbies, we both have a second job: Robert has founded a company with a friend that deals with event technology. I run courses for children where I teach them magic and have even founded a children's theater group in our town. It makes me happy to see the children's eyes light up when they learn new tricks. Family is very important to us. We spend a lot of time with Roberts sister and our two nieces, who are really looking forward to having a cousin. It's heart-warming how proud we are of them and how they keep asking us when we're finally going to have a child. We are immensely grateful that there is the opportunity to realize our dream and that there are so many great women who want to be a part of this journey for many couples. We look forward to all that is to come and the opportunity to start a family. A big thank you to all the women who have already helped so many couples. It's just unbelievably great! Please write to us if you would like to find out more about us. we are ready 😊 All the best Robert and Jennifer
Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:
Dear surrogate, we don't really know where to start. It's all so exciting and in our imaginations and especially in mine (Jennifer) you are a woman with whom I can form a close bond. I want to be by your side very intensively. Robert and I know what you're willing to accept for us. It's so great that women like you exist. We're already so grateful every step of the way and I think I'll faint with joy when we find you and the time comes. I can barely contain my emotions because I'm so excited. We want to know everything about you and your family. and we both think it's so great that our baby will have Canadian nationality and German nationality. This shows what a great journey it all was and what great people played a role in this whole journey. Above all, I think I have such a close connection with you because I can't carry our baby to term myself. and I want to say for myself that I would give anything for you. I'm just so grateful to you right now. We are so excited to get to know you and to start the journey together with you and continue. The journey has begun for us because we have already gone through 3 hormone cycles here in Germany. It's all just incredible. We look forward to seeing you =) all the best Robert and Jennifer ([email protected])