I am a single male who has always wanted to be a father. I was waiting on the right person and the right time to start a family. I than realized that with a partner it would be easier but that it was not mandatory. I have gone from thinking that it would never be the right time to realizing that now is the right time . I am in need of a surrogate to help with this next chapter in my life. I have most things in place with some adjustments depending on surrogates location and would like to start as soon as we work out the details. With that said there still has to be a connection between myself and the surrogate/GC.
I would describe myself a well rounded and stable man in all aspects of my life with a lot of love to give. I would say that I am the guy who likes to work in and around the house and would much rather have a evening with friends and family. I exercise, eat right, don't smoke and only drink occasionally. I do all I can to maintain a positive attitude and perspective on life. When time permits i volunteer with a local 1st grade class that can sometimes be challengeing but I always find it rewarding. To see the joy and excitement on their faces as they learn and discover things makes it all worthwhile.
Thank you. Thats the first thing that I want to say. It takes a special person to be a surrogate. Offering themselves to help other create families. I have been on my journey for a while now and I am ready to move to the next stage. I have done my homework and learned a lot but also understand there is always something to learn. I am open minded person and i am open to the race of my surrogate. Whats more important is a open line of honest communication. I am just trying to find that connection where I and my gestational carrier both click and feel that we can make this journey together. I would love to be involved as much as possible while still respecting your comfort. I am open to communication and updates after the birth if you wish. I would like to look at it as us building a friendship not just a arrangement. After all you are taking part in a big part in my life. No I am not looking for a wife, girlfriend, partner or significant other. I have a wonderful support group of friends and family ( village as some would say) that has been great and there for me. I can be a bit reserved at first but I am a people person. I like to laugh, see and make others laugh and just enjoy life. I am a loving caring person that maintains a positive attitude and try and encourage others to do the same. This journey is not just about me. Its about reaching the goal of parenthood happy and healthy in all aspects for all involved. Its about building a healthy family. Thank you again not just for me but for what ever intended parents you choose. Take care, Tracy
Hi Tracy, I am replying to the email you sent about looking for a surrogate.You had seen the ad on SMO about "C".Her name is Celeste and I think there is an extremely good chance that she would love to help you.As I mentioned in the ad, Celeste is in a committed, same sex relationship.She has two boys conceived thanks to a sperm donor so she fully understands what it's like to need some extra help to have children.Her experience with this and the joy she now gets as a parent is exactly why she wants to be a surrogate.This is her chance to pay it forward and she specifically has expressed that she would love to help a non traditional couple so you are right in your assumption that she would not care that you are gay, in fact she would see that as a reason to be called to help you even more.I would love to learn more about you and see if you could be exactly the right match for Celeste.Please give me a call at *** and we can chat to explore about the possibility! I have other surrogates available for matching and am always screening new applicants.You should also have a look at the agency website a bit so you can ask any questions you may have.*** I tried emailing you directly using the address you provided, but it came back as undeliverable.I look forward to hearing from you and learning more about you.Have a wonderful families grow, one baby at a time"