I'm at a place where I feel that having a child is right for me. With everything that I've experienced this far in my life, I have a great deal that I can teach a child during their young years that will impact them in a positive way so that they become honest, hardworking adults. I hope to find a surrogate because of where I'm at intrapersonally as well as spiritually. I'm content to not have a relationship because of choices I've made in my life. Although I have not taken vows, I live much like a Christian Monk (yes, this includes singing:p). One of the facets of this lifestyle is celibacy, which a surrogacy doesn't interfere with this choice in any way by my standards. A day *may* come, years down the line, where I want a relationship and I will address that decision between God and I if it comes, but I have wanted to be a Dad since I was a young child. It was the first thing I knew that I wanted for my life and I cannot say that I have lived until I have seen a child through birth into adulthood. My life has taught me to be a protector, provider and a leader. I have learned skills ranging from gardening all the way to advanced robotics... Now, I want to apply that as a Dad. I would have kids, if I could physically carry them.. but God simply did not design me that way!
I am a hard working man. I have a great job, stable income, a heart built for love and the will to be an amazing father. I'm an introverted man who is a woodsman at heart.
To a potential surrogate. Thank you so much for your heart. To help a fellow human being in this way is so extraordinary and irrevokably beautiful! I want to be a father more than anything. I've worked very hard to get into the position that I'm at now so that I can take on fatherhood as well as is humanly possible. I can't wait to connect with you and talk about everything babies!