James, American Intended Parent in Portland, Oregon, USA

Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:

For obvious biological reasons, my husband and I are unable to conceive our own child without significant help from outside sources and compassionate individuals like those whom are most likely reading this profile. We strongly desire a child of our own that is related biologically. Unable to achieve this dream on our own, we are now seeking the help of possible surrogates and/or egg donors. We have done extremely meticulous and time consuming research on the various surrogacy agencies in our local area, and to be honest, the high cost advertised by these places is very intimidating and scary. Yes, we're financially stable, but we cannot afford what would most likely equate to a second mortgage just to achieve the privilege of becoming parents. We also realize that such a service to us is not, nor do we expect it to be, free. So here we are. Asking for help.

How would you best describe yourself(s):

We've never done something like this before, or put ourselves out there like this, so bear with me if I'm all over the place. My husband and I are two hardworking professionals who have managed to obtain many things and successes in life. Bryan is in retail management and I work at a local dealership as an automotive technician. We are stable, and able to live comfortably. We have three little chihuahuas that yes, we do and have referred to as our fur babies. We are at stages in our lives (30 and 38) where we have the strong desire to complete our family with a child of our own. And yes, while the option of adoption is always a possibility, having a genetically related child would be what we would consider to be the most ideal for us.

Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:

First and foremost, THANK YOU! Thank you for taking the time to read this, above all else. You, and others like yourself, are outstanding individuals. The caliber of your character and level of compassion it takes to offer such assistance in helping those who cannot otherwise have a child of their own is truly outstanding. Whether we find the right fit through this medium or not, please know. We value you. You are amazing.