Intended Parent from Wakefield, Massachusetts, USA.
Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:
I struggle with anxiety issues and do not want to pass that on to my baby or stress my baby out in the womb with my anxiety, so I want to use my eggs so my baby will have my DNA, but I want a surrogate to carry the baby for me so I will not put my child at risk with my anxiety during pregnancy.
How would you best describe yourself(s):
I am a 38 year old single woman who has always wanted children and a family.
Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:
If you are the one I choose to carry my baby, you are pretty special in my eyes already. It is so selfless and thoughtful and amazing that another woman would do this for another woman she doesn't even know. You must be a great mother to your own kids and wanting to allow someone else to have that experience through you, is just indescribable. Please know I want to be involved in my baby's life while he is in the womb. I want to go to dr visits and ultrasound appointments, and I want to make a tape of my voice and have you play it so the baby knows I am his mother even though I am not the one carrying or delivering him. I struggle with anxiety and do not want to pass that on to my baby before he has a chance to even be born. I want him to have the best start in life possible, and I just do not think I could be the one to carry him, I am scared I will be too anxious and scared and that my stress will possibly effect him, and I don't want that. I want him to have the best of everything. And there will always be a special spot in my heart and in my baby's life for you, as you are giving me the most wonderful gift you could possibly give to another person and I am so thankful for you and always will be.