Intended Parent from Grand Rapids, Michigan, USA.
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Me and my husband have been together 6 years. We love children and would have tried earlier to start a Family but my dad got six with stage 4 lung cancer.We werebtold this on Christmas day .So we again decided we would have to wait to start our family for a bit.We took my dad in and I became a full time care giver.For 10 months he battled for his life.At 9 months they said he was stable the cancer was in remission and was doing great.22 days from that apointment 9 tumers developed in his brain.They attacked it with raydation.Witch all thay did was friend his brain like an egg.Slowing by slowly i watch it erase ever part of him this mam that was so proud of his children couldnt remember even ome of our names.You see thay raidation erased the man that was fighting for his life.And on oct 15 *** my dad forgot how to breath all together and past away.My dad had no money after the bills and we took all we had for medication for him and then.We took the last of oir savings to Barry him. We struggled alot after this but we did get *** oct *** had our hunny moon and when we got back we started to plan for a family of our own and then my mom got sick in nov *** she was struggle with parkinsons for 15 years.So again we had to place having any children on the back burner because she needed full time care and i was able to give that to her.Every other week we were back at the hospital from major bleeding issues, and major infections.This went on over and over again my my faught for every moment of life.On october 31 *** my mom my beat friend went into the hospital and went on life support she kept giving all she had up until on day 31 i said to my momma ill be okay and ahe let go.Both my mom and dad are gone now and we would have lobe for then to know there grand child when we have it.But i belive they will see it from heaven.Its time for me and my husband to now focus on having our own family