Kenneth, American Intended Parent in Bremerton, Washington, USA

Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:

I have been in several relationships over the years. Though they start off well enough the women Ive been involved with either dont want children or only want me to aid with their children and not have a family with me as a father figure. Only as mom's friend. I'm right considering finding a surrogate mother instead of going through emotional roller coaster of finding a woman with similar ideals and values that is ready to have a family. Or join her existing family if she has kids already. I have already considered going though the adoption process as well but my preference is to have a biological bond with the child I raise. So that if there is a heated argument then we will have something to remind us no what happens we have something no words or actions can break. Like family.

How would you best describe yourself(s):

I'm a stable adult who is past the age of going out late and I'd rather relax with family at home. Some of my happiest memories are one with my neice and nephew. Several close friends and coworkers have suggested to me that I should adoption or finding surrogate when they become aware that don't have any kids of my own. Mainly of how I am with my sister's kids. On occasion some have thought my neice was actually in fact my kid. Despite she is a cute blond princess.

Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:

I have helped raise my neice and nephew since they were born. They have trained me well on what to expect when I do have a child or two of my own. They have given me almost 6 years of fun and sometimes gross and embarrassing memories. I am willing to answer any questions you may have for me.