Intended Parent from Saginaw, Michigan, USA.
Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:
I met my husband in *** I had 2 girls at the time 2,5.In *** I gave birth to our daughter Ashlyn.I have always done daycare and been the house where everyone brings their fussy babies (they think I can calm them) my dream was to have a large family! My 3 girls were born by c section with the last coming early at 33wks.After waiting 12yrs we decided to try 1 last time for that final little puzzle piece to complete our family.I got pregnant in October *** anything could go wrong with a pregnancy it did.I fought so hard spending most of my pregnancy inpatient.During covid, I couldn’t have visitors and was in complete bedrest.Our little miracle Allisyn was born at 25wks on 4/19/20 as happy as Dave and I were, the whole family was on cloud 9! My other girls are 21,17,12 now so they couldn’t wait to have their baby sister home.I should also add, we have the only grandkids on both sides so everyone was over the moon excited.Although my sweet Allisyn was very early she was a rockstar in the nicu, everyone said, they had never saw a baby do so well.I was up there all day every day just talking, reading, snuggling on my girl.On May *** our sweet girl passed away unexpectedly while still in the nicu.My Allisyn was perfect! I would not try to replace her and could not replace her.I have a full nursery and an even fuller heart.I just know that our family is not complete but due to having 4-c sections and some issues with my cervix and uterus I am no longer able to have children.
How would you best describe yourself(s):
Hi, my name is Stefanie Spence, I am a very friendly, outgoing person who pours her heart and soul into being a mom.I love to travel, have fun, make memories with friends/family but I also enjoy just relaxing at home.My husband Dave is a very laid back man who really just works, spends time with us and golfs.We live on a golf course where the kids can golf,swim, play tennis and our kids favorite, catch frogs.We enjoy traveling and going up to our cottage in the summer months.Our other children our all daughters Madalyne 21, Lauren 17, Ashlyn 12, and our sweet angel Allisyn who passed away 5/17/20 at a month old due to being premature.We are not perfect, who is? But we love our kids, enjoy being parents, and truly devote our lives to making sure we have happy, healthy, thoughtful kids.We are believers in raising our girls to be respectful, responsible and teaching them that it is much better to give then receive.I am truly proud of the young ladies that our girls are becoming.Feel free to reach out with any questions.
Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:
If you are reading this, please know you are a special person.It takes a real life angel to want to carry a child for another woman.We are not a perfect family, there is no perfect family but we live hard and enjoy life.My middle daughter has had cancer 2xs so that has taught us to live life to the fullest and to make sure our children are always living their best life.With that being sad we have also raised 3 of the nicest, most polite girls who would truly give you the shirt off their back.My girls love each other and are always together as if they are best friends not sisters. My husband and I get along extremely well, we truly devote our lives to our children except for when he’s golfing.Ha ha we live in a golf course so that is his other passion.I can promise that if you were to pick us, you would never have to worry about if the child was happy, loved, wanted, or given his/her best life.I am a stay at home mommy while my husband works but he is home by 5:00 every night.Again, being a surrogate is one of the most selfless acts there is and I can only imagine that it’s a tough decision but please consider our family.
Hello! 💕 Surrogate mother or an egg donor for you. We can make a program in Cyprus or wherever you want. Really looking forward to your answer💌