Jay, British Intended Parent in Essex, United Kingdom

Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:

To complete my family

How would you best describe yourself(s):

Hello everyone, my names Jay I’m 36 and living in sunny Southend. I have a five year old daughter who was born via traditional surrogacy, we are still close to my daughters surro mum and her family. I was so grateful to have been blessed with our miracle I became a donor for four other couples which resulted in me having three donor daughters and a donor son, who all live with their mothers but we see regularly and are one big extended family. I’m looking to complete my family with the help of a traditional surrogate (I’m a cheese ball when it comes to routes and genetics) but possibly open to gestational 👍🏻 I’m separated from my husband, so I would be a single Intended father, but I assure you my children without doubt always come first and my daughter has everything she needs. If anyone would like to get intouch to get to know each other please don’t hesitate, I really am a open book. This is my last attempt really as have been trying for four years to give my daughter a stay at home sibling, so fingers crossed this works Look forward to getting to know you all better

Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:

Dear surrogate mother I am very open and experienced in surrogacy already, I see my daughters mother as family as I do my daughters siblings on her mothers side. I’m kind, caring and compassionate and will treat you with the respect and dignity that you deserve. Everyone’s different has had different expectations of surrogacy, for me personally i would love nothing more than to complete my family and I always have a open door policy when it comes to family. Surrogacy is for life not just for the journey 💚