Intended Parent from Queensland, Australia.
Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:
Hello everyone 🌻 My names Traicee.I am 33 and from the Gold Coast QLD Australia 🇦🇺 I am looking for a surrogate as I sadly can no longer carry a child myself 😔 I have 2 Beautiful Daughters, 7 and 5 next month.My miracles Lyric & Elia. I had VERY hard pregnancies with both girls.I had EXTREME morning "All Day" Sickness and both were Emergency C-sections. With Lyric my water broke but my body just wouldn't do what it was meant to. I was in hard core labour for over 24 hours praying she would come and that I wouldn't need to be induced.After all that time I was only 1 CM DILATED 😔 even though I felt like she was falling out. I ended up being induced.I had 4 contractions while they put the epidural into my spine "So scary" but then felt the contractions lesson.Then all of the sudden Lyrics heart rate went down and I was rushed in for the C-section so quickly.She was premature by just over 3 weeks but only weight 1.9 KG So under 4 pounds.She was scarily tiny but perfect in every way.Healthy and perfect. With Elia pregnancy was the same, extreme sickness.When I got diagnosed with preeclampsia at 37 weeks then boom off straight to hospital and Elia was out by emergency C- Section within 24 hours.Again very Tiny.Still Healthy and Perfect 🥰 Since giving birth to my daughters my life has changed in so many ways.. Big change was when I FINALLY left the girls father.It was a highly Domestically abuse filled 12 year relationship/marriage. Hardest thing to do as I'm sure many of you know.Also the absolute best thing to do. During the VERY STRESSFUL last year of the marriage I had my 1st Epileptic Seizure while driving. Then after more Seizures I was diagnosed with Epilepsy. It has taken the last nearly 3 years to finally find the right medication that works yay! Even with Epilepsy and all test and stuff that comes with it I was still finally free.Free to find myself and I was ready to take on the world with my girls👩👧👧. Then next BIG CHANGE!! I met the most kind, gentle, patient and loving man I never knew could exist. He loves my daughters like they were his own.We got married in NOV *** ❣ He has known from the beginning about my prior Pregnancies/Birth complications and Diagnosis of preeclampsia in last pregnancy.Then to top it off also now being Epileptic, that My body was medically unable to carry another baby 😭 He has always said he knows if it's meant to happen it will and had researched all options and was happy with surrogacy. Recently he has really become aware of how much he wants a child, a biological child. I hate that my body cannot carry 😭 I have the eggs and everything needed except my body is just not made for it. It hurts so much cause I desperately would give anything to also have a baby that is both his and mine.My heart aches for it just as bad as his now 😰 There is no greater blessing then being a parent and seeing your baby for the 1st time. I want to give him that so badly.😔😔😔 So we are looking for a surrogate ❣ Preferably near Gold Coast QLD or atleast in QLD.Throughout all of my research, it has also made me think about becoming an egg donor. Just feels like the right thing to do. I have eggs that my body is unable to carry and create a miracle with, but it could help in being able to create someone else's miracle. Just as a Surrogate would be to me. Sorry for such a long post.I just wanted to put my story out and trust that the right people will be the ones that read it ❣ Any help or advice of any kind will be greatly appreciated 🌻
