Intended Parent from Potsdam, New York, USA.
Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:
To start my own family. To produce a child that I can be a parent to.
How would you best describe yourself(s):
Hello, I am Joe, I live in Northern New York State and I have long thought I would have found a partner to build a family with… But through time and career have found no match that seemed to be a fit into my life. As time has progressed, I have concluded that the only way I will be a parent is if as a single parent; as things seem very stable in my single status. My career takes many hours out of my week, but that shall change within 3 to 5 years, perhaps sooner… as I can move my career position easily enough to a 40 hour work week. So being that I have a home and a career; the only thing missing is a family. I am seeking a path to bring a child of my own into this world and I need a mother for that child.
Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:
Dear Potential Surrogate, My name is Joe, I am getting older and want sincerely to parent a child that is biologically my own. I am open minded about paternity in that I do not want to have my child not know their birth mother, I want at least a working knowledge of their mother. I do not expect the surrogate mother to be any more part of the child’s life than she what feels comfortable with. But any communication will be welcome, even if care and parental custody is my responsibility. That is what I am thinking at this time and it is open to discuss if you were to ever wonder if you may wish to be a surrogate for a child with me as a donor. Thank you Joe
