Patrick, Danish Intended Parent in Vejle, Denmark

Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:

First of all I believe having a child is the ultimate blessing in life. I have felt ready for children for about 6 years, but have yet to find the right person to get them with - I don't really like the dating scene that much and some of the best people are scared off by me being bisexual and when it comes to love I don't settle, because it wouldn't be fair to my future children. Now I'm finally in a position where I'm able to provide for a child (or children) on my own with a great teaching job and a great apartment with plenty of room. I really want me children before I'm too old to let them have a father in his prime, who can support them in anything they want to do and are able to enjoy fresh and funny grandparents and great grandparents. This is the time in my life where I feel I have the most to offer a child.

How would you best describe yourself(s):

Artistic, active, intellectual and caring, single (bisexual) man from Denmark, who loves his job as a teacher and his family.

Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:

Dear potential surrogates (and maybe egg donors). I'm a single 27 year-old teacher from Denmark who is looking to find someone to help me make my biggest dream in life - becoming a father - come true. I have a lot of love to pass on to a child and I'm raised on the values that every child is perfect just the way they are and that what other people think of you don't define you. Those values have made me very openminded and mentally strong. Familywise I still have my two healthy parents, who have been married for almost 28 years. I also have a 24 year-old brother, two living and healthy grandparents and several aunts, uncles and cousins that I'm close with. I have got a teacher's degree and teach Special Education, Science, English As Second Language, Art, Craftsmanship & Design and Sports to 9-13 year-olds on a small school. I don't know if it will mean anything to anybody, but as a teacher I don't believe in teaching to the test, since I'm a firm believer in teaching students to think and reflect as those qualities are worth more in life - this is another value I will take with me into parenting. I myself have done great academically and was told I could qualify for any education I wanted - I chose teaching because making a difference means more than making money to me. I spent my spare time writing, painting, exercising and coaching a local handball team of 13-14 year-old boys... the rest of the time is for relaxing. A healthy lifestyle and creative outlets are very important to me. I don't know what the standard agreement is when it comes to surrogacy, but it is important for me to point out the fact that I'm not looking for a co-parent, so I need someone who is willing to selflessly help a single man become a parent. I am however okay if the right surrogate finds it uncomfortable to also be the egg donor to have those two roles separated and ethnic background doesn't mean anything (preferred countries on profile is choose by what I have seen on this site and then at random till I hit 40 countries). The number one thing expected from a surrogate for me is a healthy lifestyle - not smoking or drinking alcohol during the pregnancy is a must, but I'm not going to dictate some sort of diet. I know I must sound a little demanding, but it's all just me wanting the best future for the baby. It is also important for me to state that I'm not going to walk out on an agreement if the surrogate gets pregnant with twins - that would only be seen as a bonus. I'm so ready to become a father. Boy or girl - black or white - latin or asian that's not what matters to me - what matters is that it's my child and that I will love it no matter what. If you feel like you are the right person to help me fulfill that dream then feel free to contact me.