Evaslie, American Intended Parent in Washington, District of Columbia, USA

Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:

Having a child is always a dream of me and my Partner, and would love to be able to find a surrogate mom, who can help make this dream a reality. For me, being a father goes beyond genetics. It means being a guiding light, providing unwavering support, and creating a harmonious environment where my child can thrive. While I am open to adoption and other alternatives, the idea of having a biological connection to my child has always held a special place in my heart from my childhood. It represents a deep sense of connection and the opportunity to pass on a part of myself to the next generation. While I will want to raise the child as their primary guardian, I would also be very open to the child being able to build some level of bond with you as their mother, as I believe that is important in ensuring that the child feels holistic love from both biological parents. Having this opportunity to have a child would be a huge blessing and bring a bundle of joy to my life.

How would you best describe yourself(s):

I am a professional who is a very ambitious, driven, caring, and loving guy and I am currently in a committed relationship with my Partner. My Partner and I have come from very humble beginnings in Jamaica and have worked and studied very diligently to become great young men in our professional and personal lives.

Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:

I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. I wanted to take a moment to share something deeply personal and important with you. As a gay married man, my ultimate life dream is to have the opportunity to bring a child into this world and raise them with all the love and care they deserve. To me, being a father means so much more than biology. It means providing a nurturing and supportive environment, instilling values, and creating beautiful memories. While adoption and other alternative routes are certainly options, the idea of having a biological connection to my child is a dream that I hold close to my heart. This is where you come in, and I cannot express enough how grateful I am for your consideration in becoming a surrogate mother. The selflessness and compassion required for such a profound act are truly remarkable, and it is not a decision that I take lightly. I understand the immense physical and emotional commitment that surrogacy entails, and I deeply respect and appreciate the sacrifices you would be making. As a professional, I am fortunate to have a stable and supportive career that allows me to provide for my future family. My husband and I are committed to providing a loving home, filled with warmth, laughter, and opportunities for growth. We have surrounded ourselves with a strong support system of friends and family who are excited to embrace and welcome a new member into our lives. I believe that every child deserves to be brought into a world where they are unconditionally loved and accepted for who they are. As a gay couple, my husband and I have faced our share of challenges and prejudices, but we are determined to create a safe and nurturing environment where our child can grow up with pride and confidence in their identity. If you choose to embark on this journey with us, I want to assure you that we will be there for you every step of the way. We will support you throughout the entire process. We understand the importance of open and honest communication and will ensure that all parties involved are comfortable and respected. Thank you for taking the time to consider this heartfelt request. Your kindness and generosity could help fulfill a dream that has been cherished for a long time. I would be honored to have the opportunity to discuss this further and get to know you better. With utmost gratitude and sincerity, Evaslie