Intended Parent from Quebec, Canada.
Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:
Becoming parents is the most important thing for us in life. I simply cannot imagine my life without children.
How would you best describe yourself(s):
My husband and I both have a stable situation in life. We both have jobs that we love. I am a psychoeducator with children from 0 to 5 years old and my husband is a chemist and research director. We love sports activities, hiking, travelling, doing activities with our families and friends and many others things. Family and friends are very important to us.
Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:
To you dear fairy, you who will want to create the miracle of life with us. Our history: Me and my partner Marc, have been together for 14 years now and married for 6 years. We met while dancing the swing. We have been trying to start a family for 10 long years. To make a long story short, I had a very serious car accident when I was 16 and the operations I had to undergo on my abdomen made it very difficult for me to be pregnant. We were lucky 6 years ago that I got pregnant after several IVF. Unfortunately, I lost my water at 18 weeks and had to give birth prematurely. Our son unfortunately did not survive. Since then, I have done everything I could to get pregnant again. This resulted in two surgeries in which I almost died. Following the last operation, the doctors made it clear to me that it would be too dangerous for me to continue with a pregnancy and that the best option would be to be accompanied by a surrogate mother. We had found a person who had decided to accompany us on this adventure, but unfortunately, when we remade the embryos and that we had them tested, none of the 3 5-day-old embryos, which were nevertheless of good appearance, did passed the test. Our fairy has unfortunately decided to continue her journey with another couple. The following weeks were hell. We no longer knew what we were going to do. One evening on the edge off the abyss I called my sister and at the end of the conversation, a door opened to the possibility of her being an egg donor for us. After taking the time to think it over, my sister told me that she would give us this incredible gift. Today, I have the hope that thanks to her and to a super woman, who will want to accompany us, we will finally be able to reach the top of Mount Everest that we set out to climb 10 years ago. Becoming a mom is the most important thing in life for me. You can be sure that if my husband and I love this child as much as we can love our nephews and nieces, this so much disired baby will be surrounded by love. Thank you with all my heart for taking the time to read this. The mom and dad of a little angel who wholeheartedly wishes to give a little brother or sister to him.❤
