Muhammad Mubeen, Pakistani Sperm Donor in Nanjing, China

Why I want to be a sperm donor:

I want to be a sperm donor because I believe in helping people who may face challenges in starting a family. It’s a personal way to contribute to the happiness and well-being of others, particularly those who are struggling with infertility or are in situations where traditional conception isn’t possible. I also think it's a meaningful way to leave a positive impact in the world, knowing that my donation could help create families. Moreover, I appreciate the opportunity to offer this assistance while respecting privacy and confidentiality, ensuring that my involvement is as respectful and considerate as possible.

Description of myself:

I would describe myself as empathetic, responsible, and driven. I strive to be understanding and considerate of others' needs, which often helps me build strong relationships. I’m also someone who values personal growth and seeks out opportunities to learn and improve. At the same time, I’m practical and committed to fulfilling my responsibilities—whether at work, with family, or in personal goals. I tend to approach challenges with a positive mindset, and I’m always looking for ways to contribute to the well-being of those around me.

My letter to intended parents:

Dear Intended Parents', I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to take a moment to introduce myself and share a little about my journey and the reasons I’ve chosen to be a sperm donor. I understand that embarking on the path of assisted reproduction is a deeply personal decision, and I truly respect the courage and determination it takes to pursue this route to build a family. First and foremost, I want you to know that I admire the love and commitment you already have for the child you wish to create. I deeply believe that every child deserves to be surrounded by love, care, and a nurturing environment, and I’m honored to potentially play a small role in making that a reality for you. I chose to become a sperm donor because I wanted to contribute to helping individuals and couples who may face challenges in growing their families. I’m motivated by the thought that my donation could help bring joy and fulfillment to parents who might otherwise face difficulties in starting their families. I believe in being transparent and respectful, and I want to ensure that you feel comfortable and informed throughout this process. If you have any questions about me, my background, or my values, I’m happy to share whatever you feel would help you in making this important decision. Ultimately, I want to be a positive, supportive contributor to your family-building journey, and I will always respect your choices and boundaries. Thank you for considering me as a donor, and I truly wish you the best as you move forward. I’m excited about the possibility of helping you fulfill your dreams of becoming parents and am here if you’d like to have a conversation or ask any questions. Warm regards, Muhammad Mubeen Butt