Surrogate Mother from Enugu, Nigeria.
Why I want to be a surrogate mother:
I would be honored to be your surrogate because I deeply believe in the joy and fulfillment that parenthood can bring. I feel a strong calling to help others who are unable to conceive naturally to experience this joy. I have always been moved by stories of people who long to have children but face challenges in doing so. I understand the pain of wanting a child but you can't have one. The pain of trying mothers. I grow up in a society where women are basically blamed for inability to birth children. If I can help put a smile on the face of a fellow woman, if I can help her answer mom, then I will be fulfilled. I want to help couples who have so much love to give. I want to help them start a family to share that love. My philosophy is Kindness and love. And this is one of the ways I am giving couples mine. I want to use this gift to bring happiness to others. Additionally, I have a profound respect for the strength and resilience it takes to navigate the path of surrogacy. I am ready to embark on this journey with you, providing emotional support and understanding throughout the process. Lastly, I look forward to the potential of forming a deep and lasting bond with you. I believe that this unique relationship is one of the most rewarding aspects of the surrogacy journey. Please know that my decision to become a surrogate is not taken lightly. I am committed to this process and to helping you achieve your dream of becoming parents.
Description of myself:
I would describe myself as a compassionate and empathetic individual who is always ready to lend a helping hand. I am a good listener and believe in the power of understanding and kindness. I am also resilient and adaptable, able to navigate through challenges with a positive attitude. I am a goal-oriented person who is dedicated and committed to any task I undertake. I believe in continuous learning and personal growth, and I am always seeking opportunities to improve and expand my skills. In my personal life, I am a family-oriented person who cherishes the time spent with loved ones. I value honesty, integrity, and respect in all my relationships. Overall, I strive to live my life with purpose and passion, always aiming to make a positive impact on the lives of those around me.
My letter to intended parents:
Dear Intended Parents, I hope this letter finds you both in good health and high spirits. I am deeply touched and honored that you would consider me for such an important role in your lives. I understand the gravity of this decision and the immense trust you are placing in me. I want you to know that I do not take this lightly. I am aware that this journey is filled with many emotional and physical challenges, and I am prepared to face them with courage and determination. I am committed to maintaining open and honest communication throughout this process. I believe that this is key to ensuring a smooth and successful surrogacy journey. I am open to discussing any concerns or questions you may have at any time. I am also committed to taking care of my health to the best of my ability to ensure the well-being of the baby. I understand the importance of regular medical check-ups, a healthy diet, and a stress-free environment, and I assure you that I will do my best to adhere to these. However, before we proceed, I would like to discuss the legal and financial aspects of this arrangement. It is important for us to have a clear understanding and agreement on these matters to avoid any potential misunderstandings or conflicts in the future. Once again, I am deeply honored by your request and I am looking forward to embarking on this journey with you. I believe that together, we can make this a beautiful and rewarding experience. Thank you for considering me for this role. I am looking forward to our next conversation. Warm regards, Chidimma