Busisiwe , South African Surrogate Mother in Johannesburg, South Africa

Why I want to be a surrogate mother:

I want to be a surrogate mother because i believe a child is a blessing and i would like you give parents that can not carry their blessing a chance to have one or two or three..... I have grown up in a large family and one thing i realized is that the saying "it takes a village to raise a child" which i see as no matter how the child came about every one can be a parent and disserve a chance to be one. i think there has to be something magical about a person that can give them selves to helping others and i would like the chance to be a magical person too

Description of myself:

I am healthy and medically up to date candidate. Over all happy bubbly and out going person that is kind and tolerant. I am a care giver by profession that has a giving and helping spirit. I have one child that i delivered naturally with no complications. I have been a candidate before but the couple deiced to look at other options prier to committing. I believe in having a good relationship with parents with an open communication channel so they are part of the journey. Overall i love to be of help to those that cant do what i do.

My letter to intended parents:

Dear Parents, I would like to that person that makes your dream or wish come true. I believe everyone has that person out there somewhere in the world that is destined to help them (destiny helper) it can be for any thing but in this case its for a child. Not many understand the pain many go through in hoping to have one of their own To want to go through something so much that you forget ones other strengths because of one flaw. I understand fully as i have grown up and have been raised in a community with many women. i have worked with many women and issues that test the very essence of womanhood. But who am i to judge when i can be a solution. Again i say i would like to be that person not only because my likes and wants but because i genuinely would like to give something so extraordinary and tick of in my book that despite my hardships i have something i can give whole heartedly