Upendo, African Surrogate Mother in Dar es Salaam, Tanzania

Why I want to be a surrogate mother:

Upendo is motivated to be a surrogate mother by a profound desire to bring joy and completeness to families facing challenges in starting or expanding. With her degree in Psychology, she embodies kindness, compassion, and emotional maturity, committed to contributing to the transformative journey of parenthood for others.

Description of myself:

i am, a 27-year-old professional with a degree in Psychology. With a wealth of knowledge in understanding human behavior and emotions, upendo brings a unique blend of exposure, kindness, and compassion to every interaction. Emotionally mature and attuned, upendo approaches challenges with a thoughtful and empathetic perspective, fostering meaningful connections with those around them. Their dedication to continuous learning is evident in their commitment to personal and professional growth, making them a dynamic individual in any team. Known for their hardworking nature, upendo navigates tasks with precision and enthusiasm. Their exposure to diverse experiences has cultivated a rich understanding of the complexities of human relationships, making them an asset in navigating the intricacies of interpersonal dynamics. Whether in academic pursuits or practical applications, has demonstrated a genuine passion for helping others and creating a positive impact. Their kindness and compassion create a welcoming atmosphere, encouraging collaboration and understanding. In summary, upendo is a 27-year-old professional with a degree in Psychology, bringing a rare combination of exposure, kindness, compassion, emotional maturity, and a strong work ethic to any endeavor. Their willingness to learn and contribute makes them an invaluable asset in various settings.

My letter to intended parents:

Dear intended parent, I hope this letter finds you surrounded by hope and the warmth of unwavering love. My name is Upendo, and as I pen down these words, I want you to know that I understand the depth of the journey you are embarking on. The decision to seek a surrogate is undoubtedly one of immense courage and profound longing. It's a path that requires resilience, patience, and a heart that beats with the rhythm of a dream yet to unfold. In reaching out to someone to entrust with such a sacred endeavor, you are not just seeking a vessel but a soul willing to intertwine its essence with your profound yearning for family. As I consider becoming a surrogate for you, I can't help but be moved by the powerful narrative of your love and your unwavering pursuit of parenthood. Your story resonates with me on a deeply personal level, drawing from my background in Psychology and a genuine understanding of the intricate tapestry of human emotions. The prospect of being the conduit through which your dreams may find fruition is both humbling and exhilarating. I recognize the significance of this moment, and my heart swells with empathy for the challenges you've faced. It fuels my commitment to stand by you, to be a pillar of support and strength throughout this journey. I want you to see beyond me as a surrogate; I want you to see a partner in this voyage, someone who is not just carrying life but carrying your hopes, dreams, and the promise of a new chapter. I am ready to embrace this responsibility with open arms and a heart brimming with compassion. In closing, let me express my profound admiration for your resilience and the love that propels you forward. I am honored to be considered for this role and eager at the thought of contributing to the extraordinary story of your family. May our paths intertwine in the most beautiful of ways, birthing not just a new life but an enduring bond. With heartfelt warmth, Upendo