Ashley, American Surrogate Mother in Lakeland, Florida, USA
Surrogate Mother from Lakeland, Florida, USA.
Why I want to be a surrogate mother:
When i became pregnant with leo it came as a complete and total surprise. My husband and i were so ecstatic and happy, and as our little own grew we also began to grow as better people. When my son was born he was the single best thing thats ever happened to me. His existence is a miracle i can never stop being thankful for him. So, allow me to FINALLY get to the point: I want to allow someone to have that gift back. To experience the kind of mature love you can only experience when you have a child of your own. To wake up in the middle of the night EXHAUSTED to a giggling little face wanting YOU to pick them up. To have a child reach up for you to snuggle them close. To experience the miracle of their life.
Description of myself:
I am a fun loving, sarcastic, caring, compassionate woman.I can be shy at first but once i come out of my shell...watch out! ;) I absolutely hands down LOVE karaoke and singing...the quickest way to my heart is to take me out, or turn on a karaoke machine. I love having a good time, but i also know when and where that belongs. When it comes to life, i love gods gift to me...my son.I adore waking up to his smiles and giggles in the morning and holding him close to me.
My letter to intended parents:
I am an up front person: any issues i have or problems i will make known right away.I am very honorable, loyal, and honest...there will never be any secrets, and my word is gold.I want to have a relationship with you that extends beyond helping you with the miracle of life, i want to be someone you want to talk to and share your lifes ups and downs with you from the moment WE conceive onward. I am *** Lbs and although i want to lose more, its not a priority.I exercise and eat healthily; if you meet me in person you will automatically see that i DO NOT look my weight.Ive had doctors astounded at their scale: i look much much thinner.Weight should not be an issue, but overall blood pressure, blood testing, etc: in those areas i excel.In what truly truly matters i am healthy. Due to extenuating circumstances i DO NOT have healthcare.I had it earlier in the year, but wont be able to get on my husbands until november.Even than, im not sure if his insurance will cover the type of birth i want. I want a very natural birth, preferably home birth or in a birthing center with a midwife.Believe it or not a birth like this,with midwife care and everything is about *** (and thats being MORE than generous price wise) or less.I would require my birth partners (the parents of the child id carry) to be with me during this process and help me labor and deliver.I believe in delayed cord clamping; this is when the baby does not have the cord clamped right away and the cord is left until its not longer pulsing THAN clamped.Im sure youve heard of blood banks? Unneeded and unnecessary. If you delay clamping all of that blood and good stuff will help the baby naturally heal from the trauma of birth, and have a lower chance of jaundice, among much more.If you disagree with the above...its a deal breaker for me. Although i want to give the gift of a child to someone i do wish to be compensated for this gift.Those details will be worked out with the chosen intended parent. Legal fees and expenses would also be upon the intended parent.The fees for the insemination, midwife, birthing center, and all other related birth/insemination fees are on the birth parents until i am on health insurance (and of course, that also depends on what it covers). As i am eating now, i will also eat when im pregnant: veggies and fruit, i prefer chicken and very seldom beef, bread (but not often).If there is an additional way youd like me to eat, we can discuss that as well. I exercise regularly everyday (walking a mile up and down hill) as well as chase after a walking toddler. All i can really ask you is this: Are you ready to embark on this journey with me?
Hi there, I am wondering if you are still interested in being a surrogate? We are not far from you, we live near Tarpon Springs. We would love to hear from you. Thank you!! Eva Don