Intended Parent from Fort Worth, Texas, USA.
Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:
We 2011 I meet my boyfriend 2 years later we knew marriage was on the card for us due to work we keep delaying. In 2015 since my biological clock was ticking we decided to start trying for a baby. Due to fibroids could not get pregnant after several consultations surgery needed to be done in 2016 we went trough it. In 2017 we got married. 2018 we started fertility treatments again and in 2020 we got pregnant with twin boys but after 19 weeks we miscarriage. In 2021 after a long recovery I was told due to the D&C performed in 2020 I develop asherman syndrome that left me completed devastated but told myself I can't give up. My fertility doctor propose surgery, we did it but did not reach the intended results so he suggested someone with more experience in the matter at Mayo clinic for another surgery, then we tried another round of IVF but did not work. We changed doctors after several evaluations she was the opinion that surrogacy was my only option. That's why we are here.
How would you best describe yourself(s):
I am a hard working and driven individual who isn't afraid to face a challenge. I'm passionate about life, loving and caring tours others. I would describe myself as an open and honest person who doesn't believe in misleading other people and tries to be fair in everything I do when no one is watching.
Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:
The journey to motherhood is not what I imagined when I was playing house with my dolls as a kid. I didn’t know what IVF was, or infertility, and I certainly did not know that surrogacy existed. But here we are. While I am ecstatic to be a mom, and comfortable with our choice of using a gestational carrier to help me accomplish that dream, there are some things I want my surrogate to know. To my surrogate, First and foremost, thank you! Thank you for being brave and for answering the call to help me become a mom. Thank you for researching surrogacy and applying. I want you to know that I am beyond excited to be a mom and to try again.