Intended Parent from Fort Worth, Texas, USA.
Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:
In 2011 I meet my boyfriend 2 years later we knew marriage was on the cards for us, due to work we keep delaying. In 2015 since my biological clock was ticking we decided to start trying for a baby. I fund out I had fibroids so could not get pregnant after trying for so long. My doc suggested surgery to remove them in 2016 we went trough it. In 2017 I decided to stop working in order to stake stress from my life and body and fully commit to try harder for a baby. It was a huge sacrifice to leave off 1 income and my husband was on board, at this point we got married. 2018 we started fertility treatments again and in 2020 we got pregnant with twin boys but after 19 weeks I miscarriage. In 2021 after a long recovery I was told due to the D&C performed in 2020 I develop Asherman syndrome that left me completed devastated, but told myself I can't give up. My fertility doctor propose surgery, we did it but did not reach the intended results so he suggested someone with more experience at Mayo clinic for another surgery,. after that we tried another round of IVF but did not work. At this point every doctor is advising surrogacy. That's how we got here asking for anyone that have it in there heart to bless us please help.
How would you best describe yourself(s):
I am a hard working and driven individual who isn't afraid to face a challenge. I'm passionate about life, loving and caring tours others. I would describe myself as an open and honest person who doesn't believe in misleading other people and tries to be fair in everything I do when no one is watching.
Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:
The journey to motherhood is not what I imagined when I was playing house with my dolls as a kid. I didn’t know what IVF was, or infertility, and I certainly did not know that surrogacy existed. But here we are. While I am ecstatic to be a mom, and comfortable with our choice of using a gestational carrier to help me accomplish that dream, there are some things I want my surrogate to know. To my surrogate, First and foremost, thank you! Thank you for being brave and for answering the call to help me become a mom. Thank you for researching surrogacy and applying. I want you to know that I am beyond excited to be a mom and to try again.