Sandra, American Surrogate Mother in Portland, Oregon, USA

Traditional Surrogacy
Dear Sandra, Our names are Brenda and Ben Moore.We are a 34-yr-old couple from North Liberty, Iowa.We have been married 8 years and are hoping to establish a relationship with a surrogate who is interested in helping us realize our dream of becoming parents.We came across your profile after searching through a variety of surrogacy resources over the past few months.We connected with your message which we found to be deeply heartfelt, insightful, and sincere.The specific information you provided matches the characteristics we are looking for in a surrogate. Thoughts about Surrogacy Considering the subject of surrogacy, oftentimes, people focus more on hopeful parents searching for the “right” surrogate.But what about surrogates being just as selective in selecting hopeful parents who she chooses to bless with the privilege of raising a child? I think this important piece of a surrogacy relationship is too often overlooked or thought of as a secondary issue.We believe a surrogate should choose parents who she believes will raise a child in a nurturing environment— parents who are well-informed and emotionally prepared, able to show and speak unconditional love, and provide a child with diverse life experiences that will give her/him the opportunity to realize his/her full potential.It is very important to us to share this life-changing experience with a woman who trusts that we will be excellent parents, and if she so chooses, maintain contact with us to share in the milestones and memories in our child’s life. The People We Strive To Be Those who know us best describe us as open-minded, generous, loving people.They believe we make others feel comfortable, respected, and at ease in our company.We are generous with our time and attention, and are willing to discuss anything (even highly sensitive subjects).We are always interested in learning new things from others and dedicated to self-improvement.We work hard to make ethical choices regardless of the extra time and effort involved, or the obstacles that may stand in our way.We have a strong marriage, communicate effectively with each other, and greatly enjoy each other as both partners and friends.Whether it’s traveling, having a unique culinary adventure, or seeing a musical theater production, we love experiencing things together.In decision-making, we make the effort to become informed about the issue at hand, discuss and negotiate our options as a couple, and make decisions we both feel good about.We advocate for local and state initiatives we feel strongly about including “buy local” organic food and cruelty-free products, availability of responsible and experienced complimentary health practitioners to individuals with all income levels, and community-wide educational programs. Education and Careers Ben earned his Associates degree in Applied Business Management, Bachelors in Business, and is currently completing his MBA part-time through the University of Iowa Tippie School of Business.He is employed by Toyota Financial Services, the financial branch of the Toyota car company as the manager of the Knowledge Management department.His position focuses on quality assurance and compliance.He manages a team of data analysts, computer programmers, and technical writers.He enjoys his job and Toyota has been a wonderful company to work for.They encourage a healthy work-life balance and parental involvement.His hobbies include running, photography, reading, music (trained pianist and vocalist), and volunteering with the Boys & Girls Club and our county’s 4-H Photography program. I earned my B.S.E.in Elementary Education specializing in Early Childhood and hold dual certifications and teaching licenses for newborn through Grade 6.I taught preschool, kindergarten and 4th grade before accepting a graduate program scholarship and research assistantship to the Psychological and Quantitative Foundations program in the College of Education at the University of Iowa.My graduate training included all sub-specialties of psychology, educational measurement, research methods, and statistics.I have taught Child and Adolescent Developmental Psychology and Mathematics courses as a professor at public and private colleges and universities in the Iowa City and Cedar Rapids areas for 8 years.I also provide professional consultations and interventions for children with learning and/or behavioral difficulties, conduct neuropsychological testing, and hold seminars for parents who want to achieve healthier relationships with their children.Recently, I became a certified post-partum doula working on a volunteer basis.I help new parents acclimate as they return home with their newborns and learn to care for them, provide breastfeeding support, evaluate and discuss weekly developmental progress, and provide emotional support and encouragement.My hobbies include music (trained vocalist and pianist), reading, and offering free tutoring to youth and adult students. Fertility Situation I was bitten by a deer tick at the age of 11 and contracted Lyme Disease.I was very ill for 8 mos.before I received the correct diagnosis.During those 8 mos., I was transferred to 4 different hospitals, increasingly farther away from my family.The acute abdominal pain I was experiencing was addressed by keeping me on a constant high-dose IV drip of Demerol for several months.Experimental tests, procedures, and an exploratory abdominal laparoscopic surgery were performed on me without my knowledge or parental consent.The laparoscopic surgery revealed mesenteric adenitis caused by infection with Lyme spirochetes.I eventually received high-dose antibiotics and my symptoms became less severe, but did not disappear. We began pursuing adoption 4 years ago.Shortly after we applied, I began experiencing severe symptoms of Lyme Disease once again and was not able to work in any capacity.It began with intractable migraines, nerve pain and numbness down both arms into my fingers, seizures, tachycardia, difficulty word-finding when I tried to speak, and a loss of short-term memory.Very little was known about Lyme Disease when I contracted it as a child.A great deal of research has been done since then and has revealed that the health conditions and the way in which I have experienced them (timing, severity, etc.) were the result of the Lyme bacteria entering a state of dormancy in childhood, then posing another attack on the immune system later in life.The combination of all the experimentation my body was exposed to and an abnormality in my uterus that was noted in medical records but I never knew about until many years later, compromised the quality of my ova and ability to carry a fetus. I received all known available treatments for Lyme Disease in the US without any success before going to a clinic in Germany in February *** that specializes in curative treatments for Lyme Disease.I completed an intensive 5-week treatment protocol, then 3 months of at-home treatment.My treatment has been amazingly successful, and I have fully regained my health.We can now, responsibly, pursue our dream of becoming parents with the help of a surrogate later this year.In the state of Iowa, individuals diagnosed with and treated for a health condition within the past 5 years are ineligible to adopt.We have been ready to be parents for many years now, and we do not believe it is in a child’s or our best interest to wait 5 more years for the sole reason of satisfying a statute.We are in need of a traditional surrogate who is willing to do an IUI with Ben’s semen.We are willing to travel to your location for him to provide fresh samples or freeze and send them. We understand that choosing prospective parents to bless with a child takes time and careful consideration.We would be honored to communicate with you further.In the meantime, if you would like to see pictures of us, our home, and special moments we have shared, please send me a friend request on Facebook. Sincerely, Brenda and Ben Moore ***

Single man looking for surrogate mother
Hi.I live in Seattle and very interested in someday to become a father.If you are still available, please reply back at ***

Hi Sandra, would like very much to connect
Hi Sandra, we are in the Portland area and excited to be on the journey to complete our family via a surrogate.Having been through IVF 4 times, I know the strain it puts on womans body.Therefore we are initially seeking a traditional surrogate but are open to gestational.John and I grew up in the PNW, attended WWU for undergrad, ESU for second BA and UW for Masters.I am a senior executive in the technology sector and John teaches math, business and computer science at La Center High School, where he is also the head football coach.We have 4 healthy children who are beyond excited to bring a baby ( or two) into our family.We would love to chat with you if our situation is in line with your goals.Our IVFs were via Northwest Fertility but we have more recently been working with ORM.Hope to hear from you! Warm regards, Kerry Lynn

Hello
We have intended parents ready to begin right away all they need is their surrogate.If you are interested in finding out more about our program please contact us or visit our website for more information.

Oregon agency
Good Morning Sandra, We hope this email finds you happy and well.We are reaching out to you as a generous woman that is looking into becoming the miracle that another couple needs to build their family through surrogacy.We have a number of Intended Parents looking for surrogates right now, so time is of the essence! They are ready for that perfect-for-them lovely lady to come along and be their miracle angel that enlarges their family through surrogacy :-) Our first-time surrogates receive a *** compensation and experienced surrogates receive a higher fee.All surrogates have paid travel, childcare, and lost wages when necessary.As a surrogate, you are never out-of-pocket for someone else's pregnancy! We value you as a member of our family and we want to see our surrogates happy and well-taken care of every step of the way through her surrogacy journey!! Our requirements are those of the clinics that we work with....though unlike the vast majority of the agencies, we do NOT send out *** What you do with your compensation is your business, not ours.Please visit our website [URL is below] and you can probably have most of your questioned answered through it :-) Don't hesitate to get in touch with us to chat about surrogacy or just ask a few questions.We are a wealth of knowledge and would love to consider you part of our surrogacy family.We look forward to matching you soon!! Respond to let us know if you'd like assistance (or not) in finding your perfect match IPs! Warmest Regards, Carrie *** *** Portland: *** Medford: *** *** ***

daughter and husband tried implant 3x and failed.
Looking for a new surrogate mom.Hope you can help.Please email.

Help us fulfill our dream of children
Hi Sandra, We are interested in finding a surrogate mother in Oregon.We have tried but are unable to conceive and would like to use a donor egg and gestational surrogate.We are working with OHSU and plan to use donor eggs and create embryos so the implantation can be scheduled in a more flexible fashion.We want to start a family to share our love with.Would you help us on our journey? Best regards, Jason and Nora

The Genesis Group
Hi Sandra,may I ask if you are still looking to be a surrogate and if you are available to start the process right away?I work with an agency and have many IPs looking for a surrogate right now.Assuming all your screenings went well we would love to match you.At our agency we pride ourselves in the relationships we develop with both the IPs as well as our Surrogates.Some are uneasy about the idea of using an agency due to some bad experiences.Using our agency vs doing it yourself ensures that you are represented and taken care of properly.With our agency we'd be with you every step of the way.We offer a generous Benefit Package which includes medical insurance coverage, monthly allowances, and making sure all your expenses, travel fees, etc are all covered.If you are interested in being matched and would like to know more about our agency and the next steps you'd be looking at please contact me.I would love to set up a phone consult with you.Is there a number & day/time I can reach you at?I look forward to hearing from you and getting you matched right away! ***